Monday, May 18, 2026

IMPORTANT Announcement From President Trump!


 

New Jersey's Own Congressman Jeff Van Drew!

Victims of crimes committed by illegals!
"Behind every debate over sanctuary policies, there is a family sitting at a dinner table with an empty chair. They are forced to live with heartbreak that never should have happened."

Oh, My . . . How Times Have Changed!

One Upon A Time In America . . .


 

Race Baiting Dems Are Losing It!

Tennesse state legsislature.

Sunday, May 17, 2026

President Trump Addresses Rededicate 250

Usha Vance Champions Literacy Effort

On Friday, May 15, 2026, Second Lady Usha Vance visited AcadeMir Academy Charter School East in Doral, Florida to showcase her Summer Reading Challenge and share her love of reading with students and faculty.

During her visit, the Second Lady read Ada Twist the Scientist by Andrea Beaty to students, spoke about why reading is so important to her, and answered questions asked by the students.

“It was such a joy to meet so many amazing kids in Miami and share the gift of reading with them. I loved telling them about my upcoming Summer Reading Challenge and the fun updates we’ve made since last year’s challenge. I’m excited for children all over the country to learn and grow through stories this summer,” said Second Lady Usha Vance

“Today’s visit is especially meaningful as we unite in support of literacy, learning, and the transformative power of education through the Second Lady’s Summer Reading Initiative. At AcadeMir Charter Schools, we believe reading opens the door to imagination, opportunity, and lifelong success. We are proud to support this important initiative and remain committed to inspiring our students to become lifelong readers, critical thinkers, and future leaders," said Olivia Bernal, Chief Operating Officer, AcadeMir Charter Schools

As part of her larger childhood literacy initiative, the Second Lady recently launched a podcast, "Storytime with the Second Lady," where she hosts various guests and celebrities to read children’s stories aloud. Recent guests include former Nascar driver Danica Patrick, actor Cheryl Hines, Inter Miami CF Soccer Player Ian Fray, and her mother, Dr. Lakshmi Chilukuri. 

For more information about the Second Lady’s Summer Reading Challenge please visit www.wh.gov/read. To tune in to “Storytime with the Second Lady,” visit  Spotify and YouTube.

A Rich Italian American Tradition: Great Food, Too!

Philadelphia's Italian Market Festival held today in Philly's original "Little Italy" neighborhood was an astounding success, drawing huge crowds amidst bright, sunny weather.

As always, the highlight of the two-day festival was the beautiful Procession of the Saints. The procession starts at Saint Mary Magdalen de Pazzi Church (712 Montrose Street) and pauses at 9th and Washington Avenue for the Blessing of the Market, before concluding at Saint Paul Catholic Church at the corner of South Hutchinson and Christian Streets. 

The pinning of money to ribbons dangling from the statues seems to have origins in the practice of many new immigrants, who, to be remembered and as a declaration of their newfound prosperity, sent money back home to be visibly displayed on the statue of the community’s patron Saint, in the church and in processions. Today, many devotees simply make a prayer and pin money as an offering in support of the religious institution that is fostering their spiritual belief and needs.

The procession pauses from time to time to give blessings by sprinkling Holy Water, a ritual tradition for expiatory and purificatory purposes attributed to the Apostle St. Matthew, which recalls the baptismal rite that spiritually bound the community together.

We hope you enjoy the photos we took during this marvelous procession which winds its way through a neighborhood rich in Italian American history.











A Special Message From Our Secretary Of State

From My High School Yearbook: Can You Spot Me?





Saturday, May 16, 2026

Rededicate, Renew, Reawaken: Washington 5/17!

Rededicate 250 is coming to life in the heart of Washington, D.C. tomorrow, Sunday 5/17 and it’s going to be one of the most unforgettable moments leading into America’s 250th anniversary.

The stage is up.
 The National Mall is transforming. 
History is calling.

A BIG Change For The Wildwood (NJ) Tramcars!

An Amazing American Success Story!



 

Is There A Superman In LA's Future?

Friday, May 15, 2026

Time Will Teach You That This Is True!


 

The Great Communicator At His Very Best!

We'll Just Leave This Here For Awhile . . .

The Death Penalty For Him? Damned Right!

A Fascinating Story From My Hometown



 

Walt Whitman died on March 26, 1892, in Camden after years of declining health caused largely by strokes he suffered beginning in the 1870s. 
By the end of his life, Whitman had become something unusual in American culture: a living literary icon. Admirers, writers, artists, and curious pilgrims regularly visited his modest home on Mickle Street to sit with the aging poet. Interesting to note: Whitman designed his tomb himself and he reportedly visited it while it was being completed. 
 Whitman’s funeral drew hundreds of mourners, including laborers, intellectuals, artists, politicians, and ordinary readers, a remarkably diverse crowd that reflected the democratic ideals Whitman held dear. His coffin was displayed in his Camden home, and people reportedly passed through to pay respects before burial. 
Whitman’s brain was removed for scientific study by the American Anthropometric Society to analyze his genius. However, the brain was accidentally dropped and destroyed by a laboratory assistant before it could be properly examined. The remains were discarded, making it a "spectacular failure" in early brain studies. 
What makes Whitman’s burial site in Harleigh Cemetery so powerful is that it feels deeply connected to his character and poetry itself, rough, rooted, public, imperfect, democratic, intimate, and strangely alive more than 130 years after his death. "The powerful play goes on..."

Thursday, May 14, 2026

What The Hell Happened To Penn State?

It's been reported that in a mandatory anti-racism class, Penn State told first year law school students they must "acknowledge the reality of systemic racism" and "dismantle systems that racialize, subordinate, and oppress." Listen to the recording!


Trump's China Trip Scoring Big Time Wins!

From Benny Johnson on X:

Trump is winning BIG today… China trip is going better than anyone could have imagined. China helping bring Iran War to an end. Buying American oil. Massive trade deals. Stocks roaring. Chinese Army Band even played YMCA Expect TDS doomers to have a psychotic breakdown

Fathers Day Will Be Heree Soon . . .

Look at these dads holding their babies for the first time!


Wednesday, May 13, 2026

Our Top Ten Recent Posts!

Sondheim's Life: Struggles, Demons, Triumphs
Posted by Dan Cirucci

Prominent Democrat Leaving Party After 70 YEARS!
Posted by Dan Cirucci
As Mother's Day Approaches, Listen To This!
This Guy Is Running One Helluva Campaign!
Posted by Dan Cirucci

Comparing American Conflicts Through History
Posted by Dan Cirucci

White House: Mark Hamill Is 'Sick Individual'
Posted by Dan Cirucci
President Proclaims 'National Shabbat, 5/15 - 5/16
Posted by Dan Cirucci

Rarely Seen Video: President Trump's Mother
Posted by Dan Cirucci

Trump Effect: Govt Jobs Down, Private Sector Soars!
Posted by Dan Cirucci

Miracle! Rudy's Dramatic Medical Comeback!
Posted by Dan Cirucci

Trump's Unwavering Support For Police Pays Off!

This National Police Week, America honors the brave men and women of law enforcement who risk their lives daily to protect our communities. Under President Donald J. Trump, these heroes are respected, empowered, and supported — not defunded, demonized, or betrayed by the Radical Left.

After four years of Democrats’ war on police, President Trump has delivered decisive leadership that puts officers back in control — and the results are undeniable:

In 2025, the U.S. murder rate posted its largest single-year drop on record — plummeting to the lowest level in 125 years — with sharp declines across all violent crimes. Major cities saw massive homicide reductions, while rapes, robberies, assaults, shootings, officer deaths (an 80-year low), traffic fatalities, and overdoses all plunged. These historic gains are accelerating into 2026 — especially in cities like Washington, D.C., and Memphis, where President Trump deployed federal support to restore order and back local police.

These victories are the direct result of the Trump Administration’s unbreakable commitment to law and order:

  • Imposing the death penalty for cop killers: President Trump directed the Department of Justice to aggressively seek capital punishment for those who murder police officers.
     
  • Scrapping Democrats’ soft-on-crime mandates: The Trump Administration rescinded radical Biden-era orders pushing “alternatives to arrest” for violent offenders and restrictions that tied officers’ hands when using lawful force to make arrests.
     
  • Empowering cities to clear the streets: States and localities now have stronger tools to remove disorderly vagrants and direct them toward treatment instead of enabling chaos.
     
  • Restoring critical funding and delivering relief: The Working Families Tax Cuts Act restored and expanded Byrne JAG and COPS grants to fight violent crime — while delivering No Tax on Overtime for America’s hardworking officers so they can keep more of what they earn protecting us.
     
  • Ending cashless bail: The Trump Administration halted federal support for the Radical Left’s “cashless bail” scheme that turned streets into revolving doors for dangerous criminals — and imposed consequences on jurisdictions that refused to act.
     
  • Dismissing anti-police lawsuits and DEI mandates: Biden-era DOJ actions targeting local police and fire departments and weakening hiring standards were dropped to protect public safety — not political correctness.
     
  • Reclaiming law enforcement’s authority: President Trump took bold action to promote aggressive, proactive policing based on proven best practices — while shielding officers from unjust expenses and liabilities so they can enforce the law without fear.
     
  • Deploying backup to high-crime cities: The Trump Administration surged federal resources into high-crime Democrat-run cities — standing shoulder-to-shoulder with local police to crush chaos, restore order, and rescue communities long victimized by Democrat failures.
     
  • Giving police the equipment they need: The Department of Justice reversed Biden-era restrictions and restored access to critical surplus military assets so local law enforcement has the tools to win.
     
  • Targeting criminal illegal aliens: Federal agents are now empowered to support local police in removing violent criminal illegals, resulting in hundreds of thousands of arrests and removals that make communities safer.
     
  • Slashing restrictive consent decrees: The Trump Administration launched an overhaul of federal consent decrees that micromanaged and hindered effective policing in cities across America.
Under President Trump, America’s police are stronger, our communities are safer, and the results prove it.

Mamdani To Boycott 'Celebrate israel' Parade


 

A Dog's Fascination With -- An Escalator!

Childlike wonder!

Tuesday, May 12, 2026

OMG! The Contrast Is VERY Revealing!

Sherril Is Savaging Public Education In NJ!

Senator Declan O’Scanlon (R-Monmouth) released the following statement regarding his request for Governor Sherrill to restore school aid that was arbitrarily capped in the Governor’s proposed budget.

“Our first big test of the Sherrill Administration’s interest in veering away from the disastrous, unfair, and amoral direction of the Murphy Administration when it comes to education & property taxes is in. And it’s a whopping smash in the throat to the property taxpayers and school children of New Jersey. The issue is simple. Hundreds of school districts were told by the Murphy Administration, while they were having their aid slashed massively that ‘sorry, we don’t care how much it devastates your kids education or property taxpayers, WE HAVE TO FOLLOW THE FORMULA!’ This ‘formula’ by the way was outdated since before Murphy took office. It’s unfair, unsustainable & devastating to hundreds of school districts. Regardless, Murphy plowed on. But as soon as the devastated districts were due aid increases under the formula, suddenly following it was optional! Random caps on aid increases were applied. Because the Governor and legislative leaders wanted to give $ hundreds of millions in pork to pet projects…someone had to get screwed. New Jersey’s property taxpayers and school children were the victims. It’s that simple. And Governor Sherrill has followed that path. It’s incredible, It’s devastating, and it’s a horrific omen.

“This release isn’t a blind political attack. It comes after months of discussions and warnings that it was coming. We presented the problem, we outlined scalable solution options. The Governor’s response was essentially, ‘too bad, so sad.’ That kind of dismissive arrogance might play well in Trenton political circles, but it’s a slap in the face to the families watching programs get cut, the taxpayers getting hammered with higher property taxes, and the students sitting in overcrowded classrooms because the state once again decided fairness was optional. And to be clear, this isn’t something that can be fixed next year. The damage, to taxpayers and kids year on year, is permanent.

“What makes this even more infuriating is that the money exists. Revenue projections are improving, hundreds of millions in wasteful pork spending remain untouched, and the Governor and legislative Democrats continue throwing taxpayer dollars at politically connected pet projects like it’s Monopoly money while schools are told to tighten their belts yet again,” said Sen. O’Scanlon.

Below are some recent examples of districts negatively impacted by the arbitrary 6% cap:

Brick Township Public Schools:

Lost nearly $20 million in formula aid under Murphy

Plans to cut 40 positions, including 24 general education teachers and 12 special education staff members

Average class sizes are projected to rise to 27 students in elementary schools

Missing out on almost in $3 million in aid for the upcoming school year as a result of Sherrill’s 6% cap on aid increases

Jefferson Township School District:

Has already closed two schools and terminated 100 staff members

Lost more than $10 million in formula aid under Murphy

Missing out on more than $1 million in aid for the upcoming year due to the 6% cap

Lacey Township School District:

Has cut 163 staff positions over the past eight years, including 17 teaching jobs and two administrative positions last year

Courtesy busing and new curriculum materials have been eliminated

Class sizes have climbed to more than 30 students

Lost nearly $14 million in formula aid under Murphy

Missing out on more than $800,000 for the upcoming year due to the 6% cap

Little Egg Harbor School District:

Plans to lay off 81 full-time paraprofessionals from local elementary schools and refilling their positions with part-time workers who won’t receive benefits

Lost more than $1.7 million in formula aid under Murphy

Missing out on more than $1 million for the upcoming year due to the 6% cap

Middletown Township School District:

Plans to cut 40 teachers and close two schools

Lost more than $2.6 million in formula aid under Murphy

Missing out on more than $1 million for the upcoming year due to the 6% cap

Toms River Regional School District:

Has cut 250 positions, slashed programs, and sold a school building

Lost more than $37 million in formula aid under Murphy

Missing out on nearly $4 million for the upcoming year due to the 6% cap

“Republicans offered practical solutions to restore this aid without raising taxes, but those ideas were ignored. Trenton has hid behind the school funding formula while districts were getting screwed with aid cuts. Now that the very same formula says these communities are finally entitled to relief, the Administration suddenly decides the formula only matters when it benefits their political agenda. At some point, this stops being a budgeting issue and starts becoming a question of values and basic respect for the people paying the bills and the kids whose quality education is being dismantled. That time is now, and Governor Sherrill has failed the values and respect test with disappointingly flying colors,” O’Scanlon concluded.

Early Successes: Melania's Impressive Record!

First Lady Melania Trump marked the 180-day milestone following the signing of the Executive Order on Fostering the Future for American Children and Families, highlighting 10 achievements made to expand opportunities, strengthen public and private supports, and improve outcomes for youth who have experienced foster care.

As America commemorates National Foster Care Month, the Office of the First Lady highlighted the following achievements made surrounding Mrs. Trump’s Fostering the Future Executive Order:

Establishing the Fostering the Future Fund: First Lady Melania Trump secured a new Fostering the Future Fund, which will ensure that up to $32 million in Federal funds for foster and adoption services do not go to waste. The Fostering the Future Fund, allocated within President Trump’s Fiscal Year 2027 Budget, will allow unused funds to be reallocated to support tailored services for youth transitioning out of foster care through the Chafee Foster Care Program.

Creating a New Fostering the Future Digital Platform: The Department of Health and Human Services Administration for Children and Families (HHS/ACF) has launched a new Fostering the Future Online Platform to connect youth transitioning out of foster care with critical resources for education, housing, and career development. Guided by direct input from youth with lived experience and state child welfare directors, the new digital platform, FosteringTheFuture.Gov, was shaped through roundtable and design sessions with youth from the foster care community.

Investing in the Melania Trump Foster Youth to Independence Program: The Consolidated Appropriations Act of 2026 provided $30 million for foster youth housing. The Foster Youth to Independence program, now named in honor of First Lady Melania Trump, has supported over 1,400 housing vouchers for youth nationwide since January 20, 2025.  President Trump’s Fiscal Year 2027 Budget proposes to continue this funding.  

Championing New Foster Care Legislation: The First Lady championed new foster care legislation when she joined a bipartisan roundtable of the House Ways and Means Committee on April 15, 2026, to advance reforms to the Chafee Foster Care Program, including proposals to expand education and training support, increase flexibility, and improve access to workforce development opportunities. The Committee approved six pieces of legislation with strong bipartisan support on April 29, 2026.

Protecting Social Security Benefits Earned for Foster Youth: On December 11, 2025, the Trump Administration sent letters to states urging immediate action to prevent the diversion of Social Security survivor benefits intended for foster youth after the loss of a parent. In the last six months, the following nine states answered the Trump Administration’s call: Alabama, Idaho, Kentucky, Louisiana, Mississippi, Nebraska, New Jersey, Utah, and Washington state. These states joined Arizona, California, Colorado, Idaho, Kansas, Massachusetts, Missouri, Nevada, New Mexico, Ohio, Oregon, Virginia, and Washington, D.C. in ending the practice of diverting federal benefits that rightfully belong to foster youth.

Expanding Access to Family Care in 19 States Through Fostering the Future-Aligned Partnerships: The Trump Administration has advanced a coordinated, Fostering the Future-aligned effort through HHS/ACF to increase the number of safe, stable, and loving homes available to children in need—while reinforcing the importance of keeping families together whenever possible. By working in close partnership with states, child welfare leaders, and lived-experience experts, A Home for Every Child has focused on improving data transparency, reducing unnecessary entries into foster care, and removing barriers that prevent qualified families from fostering or adopting. Early outcomes reflect a growing national coalition committed to these goals, with 19 states and jurisdictions taking action to strengthen their systems and expand capacity, among them Arkansas, Iowa, Louisiana, Mississippi, Oklahoma, Ohio, South Carolina, and West Virginia have specifically recognized the leadership of First Lady Melania Trump and the Fostering the Future initiative in advancing this work.

Enhancing Benefits to Support Foster and Adoptive Families: The Office of Personnel Management (OPM), in partnership with HHS/ACF, issued new guidance clarifying paid parental leave for federal employees who foster or adopt—enhancing the flexibility of benefits for parents opening their homes to children in need. The White House led by example in an internal announcement sent earlier this month.

Leveraging Faith Partners to Help Youth Access More Housing Options: The Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) distributed a call to action on May 11, 2026, to churches, faith leaders, and nonprofit organizations across the country informing them of the Melania Trump Foster Youth to Independence (FYI) program and inviting faith-based organizations to become involved in helping youth transitioning out of foster care to find and maintain stable housing.

Launching a Child Welfare Technology Incubator: HHS/ACF launched a Child Welfare Technology Incubator to modernize state foster care systems, incorporating tools such as artificial intelligence, predictive analytics, and enhanced caseworker support to improve outcomes for children and families.

Increasing Transparency Through a New Data Dashboard: On January 26, 2026, HHS/ACF released the first-ever public Child and Family Services Review Data Profile Dashboard, enabling state-by-state comparisons of child safety and permanency outcomes for children in foster care—introducing a historic level of transparency and accountability of foster care systems across America.

Since the Executive Order was signed on November 13, 2025, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services Administration for Children and Families, the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development, the U.S. Department of the Treasury, the U.S. Department of Education, and the Office of Personnel Management have worked in close coordination with the Office of the First Lady—guided by youth voices with lived experience—to provide more pathways to success for young people leaving foster care.

Through significant interagency collaboration, the Trump Administration has prioritized innovation, accountability, and partnerships to better support youth transitioning out of foster care and families looking to provide loving homes across the country.

From advancing legislative solutions and modernizing child welfare systems to expanding housing, education, and career pathways, First Lady Melania Trump has led a historic effort to ensure Americans with lived experience are seen, heard, and supported.

As the Trump Administration continues to implement the Fostering the Future Executive Order championed by First Lady Melania Trump, these efforts remain guided by a single, unifying goal: delivering lasting, meaningful change for young people with experience in foster care and families across America.

Sondheim's Life: Struggles, Demons, Triumphs


The brilliant Broadway composer and lyricist, Stephen Sondheim, was every bit as difficult, complicated, and sometimes frustrating as the puzzles that he collected and so enjoyed over his lifetime.  

Sondheim's many quirks, squabbles, grudges, demons, peaks and valleys  are richly detailed in the new biography, Stephen Sondheim, Art Isn't Easy, by Daniel Okrent, for the Jewish Lives series from Yale University Press.

Here are some of the things we learn in this biography which illuminates the life, struggles and triumphs of Sondheim in a way heretofore unavailable:

  •  The author tells us that for all intents and purposes, Sondheim was an alcoholic. He drank almost every day of his life. Yes, there were periods when he went  off the bottle, but invariably he returned to his previous ways.  He enjoyed almost every kind of alcoholic beverage, including scotch, vodka, bourbon, martinis, champagne, wine  or whatever would do the trick and he resisted any efforts to get him into a program such as Alcoholics Anonymous.
  •  Like many great artists, Sondheim was also a perfectionist who obsessed over his work and, even after he completed a composition, was often less than satisfied with it. He was known to return to previously "finished" works to correct what he still perceived as mistakes or oversights. And no, whatever natural talent he had didn't make the pursuit of his art any easier. Thus, the subtitle Art Isn't Easy.
  • Sondheim was also a notorious procrastinator, either because he found it difficult to face a looming task or because he worked best under pressure. This often presented a difficult dilemma for his collaborators and the many others who depended on his output in the high-pressured theatrical world of Broadway.  Still, when the pressure was on, more often than not, he delivered mightily. But oh, the waiting!
  • They called Sondheim a genius, and he certainly was significantly above average in intelligence. In school, he skipped both kindergarten and seventh grade and entered college at 16. In first grade he read aloud from the New York Times. But, like many high IQ people, he could be awkward in social situations and found such settings difficult. He was an enigma, difficult to get to know and not what you would call a "people person." 
  • Yes, some might characterize him as a "tortured genius" as he also sometimes obsessed over small slights or things that were said or written about him and he was known to hold grudges, sometimes letting things fester for years or even decades. But, he could just as easily blow up, let off steam and then put his anger aside and act as if all was well again.  Friends learned to deal with his sometimes volatile behavior and treasured their relationships with him nonetheless.
  • Drugs were another part of Sondheim's life, though apparently not to the point where he became an addict. The musical Sunday in the Park With George was written largely with the help of marijuana at a time when weed was not legal and Into The Woods was reportedly helped along with cocaine and even ecstasy. 
  • Sondheim suffered two heart attacks, one just beyond the middle of his life and one a bit later and he did clean up his act a bit after each one, incorporating an exercise regimen and sticking with wine instead a variety of liquors. But, in both instances, he returned to his old ways and, incredibly, managed to live to the age of 91 -- still very alert, cogent, and still working on a new musical (Here We Are) at the time of his death. 
  • Though he avoided sentimentality in all his shows, Sondheim himself proved to be a sentimentalist at times. He was deeply  moved by the mere mention of the word "teacher" because he felt that teachers had the greatest impact on his life and on the life of others. And though, he was an insular person, Sondheim was known to cry easily. In fact, he cried, whenever he played the song Someone In a Tree which was deeply personal to him.
In this book, the author gives us a Sondheim, who is characterized by three overwhelming traits -- alienation, ambivalence and revenge. 

The product of a fractured marriage (and a resulting deep personal animus toward his mother) Sondheim, according to Okrent, was motivated by a feeling of vengeance, and this unfortunately carried over into many of his dealings with others. Throughout his life, he also felt a deep sense of separateness and an inability to connect with others. On top of all that was a persistent ambivalence, which carried over into the lyrics of many of his songs. This ambivalence added to the mystique of Sondheim and was depicted in the tales disconnected prople, particularly in an urban setting. And this, of course, is most dramatically expressed in the musical Company.

Alienation. Ambivalence Revenge. These three run through some of Sondheim's greatest works. 

Alienation crops up in characters who often appear to be mere observers of the world around them rather than active participants and it is a frequent trait of artists who spend the bulk of their time observing and creating, often necessarily shutting themselves off from others. Think Sunday In The Park With George and Merrily We Roll Along. Ambivalence finds a home in a secular world devoid of moral underpinnings, guidelines or even any semblance of a road map. Think Company and Follies. Revenge often grows from past traumatic events, sometimes even criminal. Think Sweeney Todd.

As gruesome as Sweeney Todd was, the strong propulsion of revenge that characterized his macabre tale was something that Sondheim could understand. Asked once about the difference between himself and Sweeney, Sondheim didn't flinch. "I tuned it into art," he answered.

Though Sondheim may have passed on nearly five years ago, we remain abundantly grateful for the art he created which lives on among all of us. Or, as George Bernard Shaw once said: "You can lose a man like that by your own death, but not by his". 

Monday, May 11, 2026

Worlds Out There: Alien Revelations And UFOs


We're talking ALIENS. No, not those aliens but aliens from way, way out there (and those newly released UFO files) as I chat with Adam Perry. And we're considering the spiritual implications as well.

Sunday, May 10, 2026

One And Only One: E Pluribus Unum!


 

Rarely Seen Video: President Trump's Mother

Circa 1991. President Trump's mother, Mary Anne, talking about her Scottish roots, her family and the son she tragically lost. 

A Plea For My Mother -- And ALL Mothers!

In recent years Mother's Day has sort of gotten out of control, Yes, it was a bit more subdued (it had to be) during the repressive Covid years, but it was still on a trajectory toward bigger and more mammoth commemorations with each passing year.

It's been one of those sort of Hallmark Holidays that has become wildly commercialized to the point where some moms simply want to be left alone during the holiday. They'd like a break -- some quiet, peaceful time away from the daily work and stresses of motherhood. With moms working harder than ever (both at home and on-the-job) can you blame them if they think the best gift they can be given is a bit of refreshing solitude?

My mother was a working mom long, long before working moms were common. She worked as a seamstress in a coat factory, otherwise known as a sweat shop. No, there was no air conditioning and summer was their busiest season because that's when they made winter coats. It was hard work -- grueling work.
But my mother was always there for me. She would rush to my nearby schoolyard at lunch time to bring me a fresh orange while my classmates and I were out to play. These and millions of other loving memories of her fill my heart every hour of every day.

Which only reinforces the fact that we shouldn't need Mother's Day to remind us that mothers are important.

And hopefully most people really don't need Mother's Day for such a reminder.
I know I don't.
Even though my Mother passed away more than 20 years ago, she is still with me every day. She is still at my side. And I remember the simpler, more meaningful observances of this day. Those essential memories endure.

So, my mom is still here for me.
She still comforts me.
She still encourages me.
She still cheers me up.
She still urges me onward.

Why?
Because she gave me unconditional love.
And love really is eternal.
It never leaves us. It never goes away. It never dies.  

When a mother gives boundlessly and unconditionally of her love, she actually seizes a slice of immortality. That's one of the great miracles of motherhood. And that's why it's been said that God's greatest gift is a mother's love.

My mother was a very proud woman -- proud but always accessible, always approachable. She carried herself with great dignity and actually appeared taller and more regal than she really was. In fact, she was our Queen!

But she was irrepressibly human.
She was also funny and quite a cutup. She had a knack for mimicking others in a generous but nonetheless targeted manner. Quickly, and shrewdly, she sized people up and then followed her instincts.

Though not formally educated past grade school, she read the newspapers assiduously every day. So, she had a keen sense of what was going on around her and throughout the world. She was curious and engaging and modern in her own way.

She did not dwell on the past but rather always looked to the future.
She didn't burden herself with unpleasant thoughts and didn't have an ounce of spitefulness or vindictiveness in her.
She was not a complainer, even under the most trying circumstances. She rarely cried and never whined. She never wanted to be fussed over and even on Mother's Day, she sought no special attention.

Always, she was sustained by her immediate family. Her family always came first.
She was happiest when her family was with her. She never smiled so brightly or so warmly or so genuinely as when she gazed upon her family.

And we were there for her till the very end, doing all that we could to give back to her just a bit of the love that she gave us.

So, we never needed Mother's Day then and we don't need it now.
Just as my Mother's love was never in doubt, the love that my sister and I gave back to her was constant and unequivocal.
And it continues to this day and every day.