Sunday, June 20, 2021

The Ten Most Important Things Dad Taught Me

A very old photo of my dad standing lovingly alongside his own father.
Happy Father's Day to all!

My father was not a man to lecture. His "words" were contained in his everyday actions -- in the daily example he set. As I watched him, day-by-day, over decades, here's what he taught me:

1. Seize the day. Don't wait. Don't delay. Get an early start and get about your business.

2. Stay informed. Pay attention to what's happening in the world because cause one way or another it's gonna impact you and your family. Remain alert.

3. Smile. Put a smile on your face before you head out the door. It will make you feel better and encourage others as well.

4. Don't make enemies. Try to be nice to everybody. You never no who you're gonna need. 

5. Don't be intimidated. You're not better than anybody else but no one is necessarily better than you, either. Don't be bullied or intimidated. Fight back, if necessary.

6. Give it your best. No matter how small the job may be, do your very best every time. And take pride in everything you accomplish.

7. Work hard. There's honor and dignity in hard work iteslf. The fine job you do will speak louder than any plaudit.

8. Keep your word. Loyalty is a priceless commodity. Don't broker it.

9. Don't give up. Hold true to your beliefs. Fight on, no matter what!

10. Look forward. Don't lament what might have been. Tomorrow is a new day.

And one more: Always look your best. It bespeaks self respect that sets an example for others.

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